Scenes of a Sistah:Past and Present

Just a thought...
I understand that we as black women have a historical trait of being nurturing. It is true that in the past we took care of everyone; our slave masters, their families, other slaves' children, and that list goes on. The only person that it does not include is us! For now, I have something to say regarding "nurturing."

I think it's cool to support your man. If you have a man who is all about doing what's best for the BOTH OF YOU, then he does deserve your "bestest." I say this because when stuff hits the fan, you know he has your back. Of course, there are limitations and you should know your own.

Ladies, I only have one thing to say about this one...While you take care of everyone around you, make sure someone is taking care of you. I look at it this way...If I don't take care of me, who will? God helps those who help themselves, so what is it that we are waiting on?